Life.....constantly in rotary motion.
Couple of minutes ago, i went to visit a fren of mine's blog.....As cited in her blog '当有了自由时, 才开始怀念当时追求自由的感觉'. I couldnt agree more, i guess this is pretty much everybody's struggle. Civilizations literally spend more than 50% of their lifespan trying to achieve self -actualisation, working their asses off from the lowest arena, by first fulfilling biological needs, then safety and security, then love and bonding with each other, then self-esteem requirements etc etc....Alas, its such a funny feeling, when something is so far away from u, u want it so badly, u haf to haf it, u will do anything to reach it........but ONCE u obtain and inherit that something, be it goals or properties or wadeva, u re not as happy as expected, or as excited or satisfied. Hence, people can just easily give up on what they initially wanted so badly and fought for ages. I personally think that its because those people tend to neglect the journey, tend to forget that they haf come a long way, to reach their destination. Sometimes its not about the goal, its bout the road and the voyage that take us there, allll the character bulding experiences embedded.
In short, it is important to haf fundamental goals in mind and in life, but we haf to be aware that life is a never-ending desire fulfilling, goal reaching, and dream accomplishing process. Wad truly matters in each route is the progression and development we see in ourselves, even if we may not acqure wad we crave for at the end. Also appreciating the whole journey, be it sweet or bitter, sometimes the experiences we gain from 'expedition' are more valueable than the goal itself.
Xian's statement of the day' We don't understand the word we perceive, but we perceive the word we understand'



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